Lost hope for your marriage? Let’s talk.


Lost hope for your marriage? Let’s talk.


Our god gives life to the dead and calls into being things that were not. This includes marriages.

The Christian’s reality is that resurrection power is at work in every aspect of our lives, including our marriages. No marriage is outside the scope of God’s healing abilities.
— Heather Bjur

My Husband was Depressed and I Missed the Signs

It happened so gradually that I couldn't see what was right in front of me.  He seemed more distant, more irritable, and more checked-out with each passing month. Yet, there were good days, too....at least a few. Always short with the kids and rarely kind to me, I began to slowly back away, emotionally.  I began to question our marriage.  He wouldn't - or couldn't - talk about anything without becoming defensive.  I began to not want to talk to him.

The Lost Gift of Humility…It Could Save Your Marriage

After more than a decade as a Marriage and Family Therapist, I can tell you a few things with certainty:

1) The vast majority of marriages truly can be salvaged (in my opinion).

2) The biggest obstacle that most people face in marriage is their own selfishness, not their partner’s.



Hope Deferred Makes the Heart Sick

I had gotten my hopes up so many times, sure that things would improve.  They just had to.  I couldn't continue living like we were.  

Except, they really didn't improve.  Like, at all.

Oh, there was a slight upshot for a few days, but eventually everything just crumbled...again.